Being a mother is a very difficult and a thankless job. As a mom I have to scold my daughter, pamper her, motivate her and also teach her to be independent. I always remember a story
told by my mom to me when I was a kid. I also shared the same with my daughter when she complained saying ' mom why you always scold me. Why don't you ignore my mistakes'. Lemme share the short story..
Once there was a couple, they got a child after 10 long years of prayer to God. They named the boy Ayush. He was the apple of their eyes. The parents would not scold him or teach him right or wrong. They were too much engrossed in loving him. The boy developed the habit of stealing stuff from his school. The teacher reported to the parents but they ignored and told the teacher that it's just pencil that he brought home and this can't be called stealing.
This boy grew up to be a robber and once got caught in a bank robbery. He was sentenced imprisonment. The boy requested the jail attendant to let him meet his mother as he wanted to share a secret with her. The attendant allowed. The mother went to meet his son. He told her to come close as he wanted to say something in her ears. The moment the mom came near ;he went to her and bit her ear. Then he told her that 'this is for not scolding me 15 years back when I stole that first pencil from school.'
told by my mom to me when I was a kid. I also shared the same with my daughter when she complained saying ' mom why you always scold me. Why don't you ignore my mistakes'. Lemme share the short story..
Once there was a couple, they got a child after 10 long years of prayer to God. They named the boy Ayush. He was the apple of their eyes. The parents would not scold him or teach him right or wrong. They were too much engrossed in loving him. The boy developed the habit of stealing stuff from his school. The teacher reported to the parents but they ignored and told the teacher that it's just pencil that he brought home and this can't be called stealing.
This boy grew up to be a robber and once got caught in a bank robbery. He was sentenced imprisonment. The boy requested the jail attendant to let him meet his mother as he wanted to share a secret with her. The attendant allowed. The mother went to meet his son. He told her to come close as he wanted to say something in her ears. The moment the mom came near ;he went to her and bit her ear. Then he told her that 'this is for not scolding me 15 years back when I stole that first pencil from school.'
I would say that don't take anything wrong lying down. At least raise your voice when you feel that something wrong is being done. You never know some bad trait of your loved ones you ignore today because of the fear of losing them or because you love them too much can become delirious for everyone tomorrow...........
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