Whenever I would attend a wedding I would always wonder why the hell has God made such complicated relationships. Why the weddings originated? In my view point it was because he has created the feminine species as multitaskers and the masculine species as focus sorts . A typical male cannot take care of more than 2 things at a time. And a typical female would love challenges in her work and would look for more responsibilities in her work domain. Owing to these peculiarities of their individual nature god might have thought of loading the females with responsibilities of both side of families, her career and her self actualisation . And what left to male was to focus on that one FEMALE in his life and his career.
Now we all know till here. Let u s look at it from a management point of view. In a female's KRA there are a lot of emotional responsibilities. Now the male who acts as a manager has a very crucial role to play. We know that in organisations once you cross a certain level your ratings depend on the rating of the team that you lead. In our case it is the spouse in either of the side. Now how do you ensure that this subordinate named 'SPOUSE' functions properly. Let us remember ,NOTHING COMES FOR FREE IN THIS WORLD., God I guess would have thought of these things way earlier than us and as a result he created LOVE, ATTRACTION,FAITH and TRUST.
I feel these are the four riders of a smooth sailing merger between two different individual.
If a guy would not love enough or should I say would not show that he cares in both Cash or Kind then believe me the last two riders would be affected; and the employee named wife would simply start behaving cold towards her prime KRA which includes loving him back, taking care of his family the way he wants and being tender towards his needs.
If a female would not show the first two drivers and obviously the male as time immemorial has shown would just delete the last two and also find a secret replacement.
Sometimes I wonder what a great management GURU God is ........ He thought of all these way before he made Adam and Eve....... Now it's for us to think...... Where we want this merger to go...".......
Bye for now..... Keep loving each other.......... And get benefited from this barter of relationships......
Now we all know till here. Let u s look at it from a management point of view. In a female's KRA there are a lot of emotional responsibilities. Now the male who acts as a manager has a very crucial role to play. We know that in organisations once you cross a certain level your ratings depend on the rating of the team that you lead. In our case it is the spouse in either of the side. Now how do you ensure that this subordinate named 'SPOUSE' functions properly. Let us remember ,NOTHING COMES FOR FREE IN THIS WORLD., God I guess would have thought of these things way earlier than us and as a result he created LOVE, ATTRACTION,FAITH and TRUST.
I feel these are the four riders of a smooth sailing merger between two different individual.
If a guy would not love enough or should I say would not show that he cares in both Cash or Kind then believe me the last two riders would be affected; and the employee named wife would simply start behaving cold towards her prime KRA which includes loving him back, taking care of his family the way he wants and being tender towards his needs.
If a female would not show the first two drivers and obviously the male as time immemorial has shown would just delete the last two and also find a secret replacement.
Sometimes I wonder what a great management GURU God is ........ He thought of all these way before he made Adam and Eve....... Now it's for us to think...... Where we want this merger to go...".......
Bye for now..... Keep loving each other.......... And get benefited from this barter of relationships......
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