I always believed in the theory that we meet people in life for a reason and also they leave us and go for a reason. For a long time I could not figure out the reason behind it.....
Now as and when I add experience to life and enrich it, I started finding answer as to why do we meet and depart? Every individual in life is there to teach us something and would be there with us until we learn the lesson to be learnt from them. So for example if we encounter ourselves with stubborn and difficult people then probably life wants us to learn to be patient and more calm. They would teach this lesson to us and we would suddenly find a miraculous change in their behaviour or they might exit our life.
I am very glad that my path crossed with so many such people who taught me a lot in life. I thank all those critics and those so called "difficult people" whom I was either scared or not happy to face that they came in my life. Had it not been those poeple I would not have been such a strong willed person today.
Hence I feel that if we are constantly exposed to same type of bad situations again and again then may be it is a signal that we haven't learned our lessons. For example, if someone is cheated time and again in relationships then probably he hasn't yet learned to be an emotionally stable person. Whenever I come in a crisis situation I sit and analyse it and quickly pick points to be learnt from that and in this way avoid it in future. Believe me this works. I cry only once on a situation and the next time it would not occur as I have learnt the lesson. The simple rule in life is good follows the bad and visa versa but by learning from bad ones we at least are ruling out the probability of the same thing to occur again. Do try out. This works.
Havin said all of these, there are also some people who stay for ever in your life. They are your permanent teachers. They are the ones you owe your existence. They keep reminding you of your orbit and keep you connected to your goal. They are the ones you should never leave.. Keep learning from them and keep carving your life better..
I always thought of having a life of my own, with my sorrows and my highs and my lows. And as they say, "if you can dream it you can do it". I could make a small life of my own with my best friend and now husband@ tejas desai. We have a small universe and lead a happy life. But coming back to our context I learnt a lot about life from him. He has taught me to be independent in real terms. Take life as it comes and not plan miniscully. I pray to God that this lessons from him continue life long as there is a lot to grasp from him, glad that we crossed.........
Now as and when I add experience to life and enrich it, I started finding answer as to why do we meet and depart? Every individual in life is there to teach us something and would be there with us until we learn the lesson to be learnt from them. So for example if we encounter ourselves with stubborn and difficult people then probably life wants us to learn to be patient and more calm. They would teach this lesson to us and we would suddenly find a miraculous change in their behaviour or they might exit our life.
I am very glad that my path crossed with so many such people who taught me a lot in life. I thank all those critics and those so called "difficult people" whom I was either scared or not happy to face that they came in my life. Had it not been those poeple I would not have been such a strong willed person today.
Hence I feel that if we are constantly exposed to same type of bad situations again and again then may be it is a signal that we haven't learned our lessons. For example, if someone is cheated time and again in relationships then probably he hasn't yet learned to be an emotionally stable person. Whenever I come in a crisis situation I sit and analyse it and quickly pick points to be learnt from that and in this way avoid it in future. Believe me this works. I cry only once on a situation and the next time it would not occur as I have learnt the lesson. The simple rule in life is good follows the bad and visa versa but by learning from bad ones we at least are ruling out the probability of the same thing to occur again. Do try out. This works.
Havin said all of these, there are also some people who stay for ever in your life. They are your permanent teachers. They are the ones you owe your existence. They keep reminding you of your orbit and keep you connected to your goal. They are the ones you should never leave.. Keep learning from them and keep carving your life better..
I always thought of having a life of my own, with my sorrows and my highs and my lows. And as they say, "if you can dream it you can do it". I could make a small life of my own with my best friend and now husband@ tejas desai. We have a small universe and lead a happy life. But coming back to our context I learnt a lot about life from him. He has taught me to be independent in real terms. Take life as it comes and not plan miniscully. I pray to God that this lessons from him continue life long as there is a lot to grasp from him, glad that we crossed.........
